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Xiao Li-USAden 27 augusti 香格里拉April 27, 2009 -------听唐妮的《香格里拉》 http://www.stsky.com/Music/126173.htm
香格里拉 我的家
春风 轻纱 香格里拉 一个美丽的神话
柳丝花枝 红墙绿瓦 香格里拉 一幅彩色的图画
这美丽的香格里拉 这可爱的香格里拉 我理想的家
08/26/09 应该是在2009 的四月份听的这首歌吧，看了看自己当时听歌后的写下的一点文字，记录的是四月二十七日时的心情。
对香格里拉的解释应该是，‘心中的日月’‘人间乐土’之类。我倒是更愿意理解它等同于‘世外桃源’‘ 伊甸园’‘天堂’。
记得还是读小学的时候，有一个周末妈妈在家里备课，就是东晋大诗人陶渊明的《桃花源记》。妈妈可能是 很喜欢里面所描述的那个‘乌托邦’的景象吧，她便一字一句地给我解释起来。听完了妈妈讲的故事以后，有一段时间，希望 自己也能像那武陵人一样，什么时候也能迷路，没准也能撞见个世外桃源什么的。
日复一日，年复一年，当我慢慢地长大，越发在心里渴望那样一个没有战乱，自给自足，鸡犬相闻，老幼怡然的理想家园了。后来，这世外桃源在我的心里变成了‘伊甸园’‘天堂’。
那天听了这首歌，不由得就想起了‘世外桃源’‘伊甸园’‘天堂’这些美丽的词汇。
不信你也听听这首歌。歌手独特的女中音，加上优美的旋律，准让你跟着跳起舞来。 den 29 maj If I become rich.... ...Today is another furlough day. After I finished my quick physical check up at hospital in the morning, I went to the grocery store to buy some hot dog buns for tomorrow’s picnic. There are very few people there. That makes feel a little bit different. Like most people I have to work 8 hours a day, whenever I go out for grocery shopping, there are always lots of people.
What extravagance to go shopping in the early morning! As I was thinking of it, I felt a little bit guilty because it almost becomes my habit that I usually work first in the morning then in the afternoon I am supposed to relax a little bit. Shopping is usually considered one of my relaxing ways. I am so easy to be happy. A song, a nice cup of tea, a delicious dishes, a phone call from a friend…. Of course, buy hot dog buns in the EARLY MORNING. What a blessed person I am!
When I become rich, I will do the ERALY morning shopping every day! I started to tease myself while checking out. Then I remembered the story my father told when I was young.
Once upon a time, there were two shepherd boys who were day dreaming about what to do after getting rich. One said, ‘IF I become rich, I will hire a shepherd to take care of my sheep. And I will sleep on the grass.’ The other boy said, ‘IF I become rich, I will put lots of sugar in my water and drink them every day! ‘ My father was trying to convince me that if you do not have the knowledge of the outside world, you mind will be limited.
I began to laugh. Yes, I was just like the shepherd boy then.
5/29/2009 den 25 januari Hope For the BestHope for the best, good luck, United States! 1/25/2009
看看自己的BLOG，竟然有一段时间没有写什么了。时间飞快呀！不是没有心情写什么，而是真的没有时间写。整天忙忙碌碌的，根本没有时间将自己的感受写出来。
其实，真的要写， 也都不是什么好消息。金融海啸真的让美国元气大伤。单说发生在身边的事就够悲伤的了。有一段日子，每个周末去超市买东西，都会看到大大的标志，都是写着同样的内容， ‘going out of business’(俺们不干了，关门了，大概这个意思) . 在我居住的村里（俺住的这个区还不是city,是 village），先是看到 ’Linen& Things’ 然后就是‘ Circuit City’ 紧接着又是‘ Office Max’ ，就连我最喜欢的 餐馆 ‘apple bee’ 也不在俺们这个村儿里干了… …
到了美国这么多年了，还头一次经历这样的情景，两个字， ‘惨淡’。
几天前跟公司的货运经纪公司的头联系，谈谈关于可否在中国到美国的海运上想想对策，省点钱什么的。那人籍贯是瑞士人，口音里还有外国腔。（话说回来了，来美国的海都是南腔北调的，移民国家嘛。）。谈着谈着，就聊到最流行的话题， ‘你们生意怎么样？ ’答案也是最流行的， ‘不怎么样’。我开玩笑跟他说，‘看看Obama能做点什么，就是实在不行，你回瑞士，我回中国… …’。猜猜他老人家说什么， ‘这么多年了，回不去喽，Lets hope for the best….’
是啊，真的还能回去吗？听说好多海龟都变海带了，愁人哪，能说什么呢？ Hope for the best, Good Luck, United States! den 7 augusti Moments--Pearl Necklace瞬间 Moments 7/15/08 7:00PM
每天早上起床后，第一件事就是到儿子的床前，轻轻地亲一下还在睡梦中的儿子的小脸蛋。今天早上当我蹑手蹑脚地走到儿子的床前，儿子紧闭双眼极力掩饰自己早就醒了的事实。我也假装不知道他已经醒了。照例在他的小脸蛋上亲了一下。 儿子抿着嘴偷偷地笑了，我也装作什么都没有看见，背过身偷偷笑。突然我们两个人都忍不住了，哈哈哈大声地笑了起来… … Every morning, the first thing after I get up is to sneak into my little man’s room and give him a sweet kiss on his lovely face while he is still sleeping. This morning, when I was about to kiss him, my little man was awake, however, he was trying to pretend that he was still asleep by closing his eyes tightly. So I pretended that I did not notice that he was awake. I kissed his face as usual. My little man smiled secretively. I turned around to hide my smile too. As none of us could hold it, we suddenly burst into loud laughs… …
记得初中毕业以后，要去离家里乘车需一个小时的高中读书。因为要在学校住宿，所以每个星期只能回家一次。 初次离开爸爸妈妈的我，非常非常的想家。我说的想家可不是一般的想家，我会常常在学校哭起来，根本不想读书。更有甚者，又一次竟然跟老师撒谎说自己的钱已经用光，必须回家。老师没有同意，我就偷偷跑回家了。可当我高高兴兴地出现在爸爸妈妈面前的时候，爸爸却板着脸，狠狠地批评了我一顿。那时我气坏了，心想，‘哼！等着瞧，有一天我走得远远的，让你们想看我都看不到！ ’（从那以后，我离家越来越远，直到今天我到了地球的另一边----美国。 爸，看我是多听话的孩子！） 虽然第二天我气哼哼地回到了学校。可是从那以后，隔三差五爸爸会带着妈妈做的一些好吃的东西来学校看我。有一次，中午午休的时候，爸爸来看我。爸带我去了附近的一家小餐馆，爸点了一大盘青椒炒肉和一大碗啤酒。那时不卖瓶装啤酒，只有散装的。我大口大口吃着青椒炒肉。 爸说，‘姑娘，来尝一口啤酒？ ’我呷了一口啤酒… … 好香的酒,好香的肉啊！那味道就一直留在我的心里了。直到现在。信不信？
After my graduation from Junior High School, I had to go to the Senior High school that was 1 hours’ bus ride from home. Because I had to live at the school, I could only go back home on weekends. That was the first time I left my parents. I was very home sick. I should say I missed my Dad and Mom so much that I would cry at school and could not concentrate on my study at all. Even worse, once I lied to my Head Teacher that I ran out of money and I had to go back home. The teacher did not approve my request. Who cares! I went back home without his permission. When I appeared in front of my parents happily, to my surprise, my Dad looked very serious and gave me a big lesson. I was so mad at Dad! “ Wait and see,’ I said to myself, ‘ someday, I will leave home far far away from you guys! I will make you feel miserable that you can not see me even though you miss me so much…’ (Well, from that day, I am leaving far away from home day by day till now I am at the other side of the globe – U.S.A. Dad, see what an obedient kid I have been…) The following day, I went back to school angrily. But ever since then, Dad would come to my school from time to time and bring some foods that Mom cooked for me. Once Dad came to see me. We went to a nearby small restaurant. Dad ordered a big plate of Pork and Green Pepper and a big bowl of beer. At that time, there was seldom the bottled beer. I crammed myself as much as I could. ‘My girl, want a sip of beer?” I did. What a feast! The wonderful tastes of beer and Pork Green Pepper lasts till this day in my mind.
去年三月的时候，有一天突然收到一封电子邮件。有位阔别多年的朋友要到芝加哥来看我。那天我早早驾车到机场在国际出口等候那位朋友的出现。结果发现那里有两个出口，A和 B。虽然两个出口相距不是很远。可还是有一段距离。是A还是B呢？ 他会在那个出口出现呢？我真的不想让他走出来一下子看不到我。在飞机未到达之前，我在两个出口之间走来走去，无法确定到底应该在那个出口等他。当我听到他乘坐的飞机已经降落的时候，忽然间来了灵感，‘他会在A出口出来，我就在那里等好了。 ’于是我站在A出口的最前面，焦急地张望着… …果然他真的从那个出口出来了。当他朝我走过来，我们彼此拥抱的时候，我对他说，‘I am so happy to see you ! ‘。这句话真的是从心里说出来的。
In March last year, I got an email from a friend who would visit me after so many years. I drove early to the airport and waiting at the International Exit for my friend. When I was there, I found out there were 2 exits. The 2 Exits do have some distance from each other though not very far. Which exit would he be walking out from? I did not want him to miss me when he walked out from one Exit while I was waiting at the other Exit. Exit A or Exit B? For quite some time, I really could not decide which Exit I should go to. Then I heard that his airline just arrived. At that moment, my gut feeling told me ‘He will appear at Exit A, I will just wait for him at Exit A.’ Guess what, he did walk out from Exit A. While he walked towards me and we hugged each other, I said to him, ‘ I am so happy to see you! ‘ That really came out of the bottom of my heart.
年初的时候，有一段时间，因为参加了一个职业有关注册证书的准备课程，周末的时候要花好多时间准备老师留的作业。那是第三门课的一个 ‘GROUP PROJECT’, 可以说真的是让我很伤神的一个 Project. 我不是说，课题有多难，而是大家的分歧比较大，为了说服其他同学，每天晚上我要花好多时间，准备详细的说明来证明自己的观点是正确的。 老实说，白天的繁重工作已经够累的了，业余时间真的想能够有一点时间休息一下。有一个周末，我一个人呆在家里坐在电脑前准备老师的作业。几个小时以后，我站起来，望着窗外，又冷又饿，顿觉身心憔悴… …我对自己说，“What the heck I am doing here?” 。这时候我听到门铃响了，会是谁呢？我懒懒地打开门，一张笑脸出现在我的面前，还有一杯热巧克力… … 那是我喝过的最好喝的热巧克力！
At the beginning of the year, for a period of time, I had to spend lots of time at the weekends on one of the projects for my professional certification classes. That was for my 3rd class. I should say that project was really a tough one. I am not saying it was a hard project. I just needed to spend more time and efforts on explanations to convince the other team members so as to reach the consensus. To tell you the truth, I was already too tired after work each day. What I really wanted to do was to relax a little bit at the weekends. On one weekend, after a few hours’ sitting in front of my computers, I stood up looking outside of the windows. I felt cold and hungry, so exhausted… … I asked myself, ‘ what the heck am I doing here?’ At that moment, I heard the doorbell ringing. Who would that be? Sloppily I opened the door. A smiling face and a cup of hot chocolate…. … That is the best Hot Chocolate I have ever had!
快乐人生像一串珍珠项链，是用一个个精彩的瞬间穿起来的。我这样说你同意吗？
Happy life, just like a pearl necklace, is connected by every wonderful moments. Do you agree with me? den 19 april Disappear for a while,消失一段时间去年一直很忙，参加考证书学习，三月底全A完成了课程。接下来还有4个考试 ，看来还要继续消失一段时间.
I have been very busy so far to prepare my professional certification. Just finished all the classes with straight A at the end of March. But still need to prepare for the tests. So I have to disappear for quite some time. den 18 december Present- 礼物12/16/2007 started, finished at lunch time on 12/17/08 I started to buy the Xmas presents for Hang’s teachers on11/24/2007. Each year, I will do this to express our thanks to the helps of his teachers. At this time of the year, I am always very busy shopping. After all, Xmas time is present time. During the evening, I happened to listen to Xu Wei’s song ‘Present’ again. A few years ago when I first listened to it, I thought it was a song between the lovers. That evening, I did some research on the Internet, and then I know the song was written for his mother. I love the words, On those silent nights I made my prayerI wish I am a present to your life forever. when the blissful joys shine on my heart I wish I could embrace you To share them with you for the every tiny part
’ It really touches me. I would like to share this song with Mom and Dad. Do you consider me (my sisters and brother) God’s gifts to your life? I would also like to share this song with everyone who can read my writing here. For whatever reasons we are connected either by love as family members or friendship as close friends. Don’t you think we are wonderful presents to each other? I translate the song in English. Hope it reflects the essence of this song.
11/24/07, 我开始给杭的老师买圣诞节礼物. 每年我都会这样做来表达我们对老师的感谢.到了这个季节,我总是会忙于采购礼物. 毕竟这是个赠送礼物的时节. 那天晚上,我偶然从新听到了许巍的歌 ‘礼物’ .几年前我第一次听的时候,把它当作一首情歌.那天晚上,我到网上查了查,原来许巍的这首歌是给妈妈写的. 我很喜欢这几句歌词, ‘在寂静的夜，曾经为你祈祷,希望自己是，你生命中的礼物 我也把这首歌送给所有可以看到我写在这里的文字的人,因为不管因为爱或是友谊或是其他什么原因我们被联结到一起,你是否觉得我们是生命中彼此的礼物呢? 我把这首歌翻译成了英文,希望还能保持原味.
让我怎么说,我不知道 太多的语言消逝在胸口 头顶着蓝天沉默高远 有你在身边，让我感到安详
走不完的路，望不尽的天涯 在燃烧的岁月，在漫长的等待
http://www.yuzhen.net/sister/bgmusic.wma (Click for the song.点击听歌)
I am not sure what I should say I really do not know if it is the proper way So many words dissolved at my chest Which ones are the best?
High above is the blue sky, Far and high, my silences fly With you by my side, The peace will reside.
Walking on the endless path Toward the ends of earth, Through the long waiting in those passionate days, when the blissful joys shine on my heart I wish I could embrace you To share them with you for the every tiny part
On those silent nights I made my prayer I wish I am a present to your life forever. when the blissful joys shine on my heart I wish I could embrace you To share them with you for the every tiny part
http://www.yuzhen.net/sister/bgmusic.wma (Click for the song.点击听歌)
den 11 september Cooking
For quite some time, I have not cooked anything I can call them ‘decent Chinese dishes’ until recently I feel the strong craving for some Chinese foods. As a matter of fact, I like to cook. Just because so many things are going on and I hardly have time to do my Art work on cooking.
For the past few weeks, I cooked something old and something new at the weekends. Those old Chinese dishes like Ma Po Tofu & Meicai Pork are always my favorites. I also created a few new such as MISO fish, Water Mellon Skin and Tomato, Meatball Squash. Those are really delicious. (My mouth is watering when I am thinking bout those dishes.) Hang really enjoys the MISO fish though there are too many bones in it. I enjoy the Meatball Squash. Here in U.S., there are really few varieties of vegetables than in China. So, you have to invent new ways of cooking the same food. If you are a creative person at cooking, then you will not feel bored on the foods. At least, you can make something to your own tastes.
Once, my Yoga teacher complained about the cooking. She said the worst thing to her in this world is to cook. I really feel sorry about her. To me, Cooking is one of the fun parts in my life. The good foods not only please my hungry stomach but also my eyes, my mouth. And other than that, you can also enjoy it as a piece of art work. Don’t you think so? den 18 augusti I WANT TO TURN BACK TO BE A MONKEY AGAIN我要做猴子 8/18/2007 虽是周末，仍然是 ‘黎明即起，洒扫庭除 ’。洗衣服，吸尘，整理房间…… 总是干不完的活。紧张的工作日过去，常常盼望着周末可以什么都不做。可是日复一日，年复一年，休息的时候少，工作的时候多，好像从未改变过。
忙完了一天的家务，躺在床上，顺手翻开国学大师- 林语堂的文集 “ THE IMPORTANCE OF LIVING”. 极其巧合的是，映入眼帘的是题为 ‘人类是唯一在工作的动物 ’的文章。一下子就吸引了我的注意力，于是认真读了起来… … 林先生说，在世间所有的动物都不必工作，只有人类， ‘辛苦地工作着，驯服地关在笼子里，为了食物，被这文明和复杂的社会强迫着去工作 ’。作为人类中的一员，看来难以逃脱 ‘唯一在工作的动物 ’的称谓了。真是不公平啊！凭什么大家都是动物，深林的野兽，天空的飞鸟，甚至是豢养的家畜都不用工作？偏偏人要工作？ 林先生接着说， ‘文明大约是寻觅食物的问题，而进步便是使事物难于得到的一种发展。 ’ ‘人类的危机是在社会太文明，是在获取食物的工作太辛苦，因而在那获取食物的劳苦中，吃东西的胃口也失掉了 – 我们已经到了这个境地。 ’
哈哈，我不禁大笑起来， ‘林先生，你讲得太有道理了！”这么多年一直在寻找人为什么要辛苦工作答案，为了能够养活自己，为了能够自立… … 原来那都不是什么理由，真正的理由是人类不可思议的文明… … 记得在上海工作的时候，午休闲聊，一位同事说过， ‘我还是希望人类的进化不是这样的好，宁可变回猴子，饿了，吃树上的果子。渴了，喝山间溪水。困了，就去山洞里休息。何必这般辛苦，为了口里吃的，身上穿的，还有一间大房子，不停地劳碌，苦哇！’想起了这位同事的话，特别有感触。要是能够选择，真像那位同事说的， 我好想做猴子。
den 2 augusti Lost in Translation-07/20/2007Lost in Translation
-“I am so lonely and exhausted, searching the light in the darkness... ” - A story of soul searching - Follow your true calling for a soul mate. Age does not make any difference
In the past weekend, I watched this movie DVD again... ... www.yongmei2007.spaces.live.com
August 02
Lost in TranslationLost in Translation
-“I am so lonely and exhausted, searching the light in the darkness... ” - A story of soul searching - Follow your true calling for a soul mate. Age does not make any difference
In the past weekend, I watched this movie DVD again. The movie was nominated several academy awards. It won the Oscar for Best Original Screenplay. The story happens in Tokyo. Bob Harris – an aging American action movie star on the downward slope of his career, who has come to Tokyo to film a Suntory whisky commercial. He meets Charlotte, a young woman who married a celebrity photographer. The two share an unconsummated romance at Tokyo.
The first time I watched this movie. It seemed to me just another drama between an OLD man and a YOUNG woman. As a matter of fact, even though there have be touching love stories of those well-known ‘OLD husband and YOUNG wife’ couples in the real world, I really doubt there are true loves between an OLD man and a YOUNG woman. Especially after seeing some girls in China (some other Asian countries too) seek any opportunities to go to USA or European countries for a ‘rich and better life’. They do not even care the guy might be his Dad’s age. They just need a ticket to their dream life.
However, after watching this movie again, I gave the ‘OLD man and YOUNG woman’ style a second thought. And my opinions changed. I do believe now THERE ARE TRUE LOVES BETWEEN AN OLD MAN AND A YOUNG WOMAN in some cases.
I wonder if you have heard of the saying like ‘humanity’s inability to function without the companionship’. It makes sense if you agree that as human beings, we need to satisfy the needs of our body (flesh) and our soul (spirit). Let’s make it simple, if you do not drink and eat, you will die. If you do not have a partner or friends, you will feel lonely. As human beings, we put more weight on ‘soul mate’ than ‘body mate’. One may not know exactly the purpose and destiny of his life. However, his soul is constantly searching. In other words, he has been searching all the times for his ‘soul mate’ following his true calling while he is walking towards his destination of his life.
Do you believe that everyone feels lack of connection at some points in their life? As in this story, Charlotte is often left behind by her husband when he goes to his photo shoots. She is sad and lonely. She begins to wonder about her direction in life, and who this man she is married to. As to Bob, he no longer holds his past glories. At the same time, he is tired of his marriage, probably experiencing his ‘midlife crisis ’. Both of them feel lonely and at loss in the totally strange land at Tokyo. They just simply reach out to seek friendship and companionship. They strike up a friendship soon after they get to know each other in the bar of the hotel they both stay in. The two grow closer through their adventures in Tokyo and spent a night together when neither can sleep.
Unlike the other drama, there is no passionate ‘bed scene’ between the two. Charlotte and Bob are not meant to be lovers either. Charlotte is about half age of Bob. However, you can really feel their pains. (I especially like Bob’s eyes, which show his loneliness and depression) And when they meet each other as a ‘soul mate’, age really does not make a difference.
I enjoy the ending of the movie: On the morning of Bob’s departure, in his taxi to the airport, he sees Charlotte in the crowds. He gets out of the taxi and runs after Charlotte. They face each other and hug. At this moment, Bob whispers something in Charlotte’s ear. After a kiss and embrace, they part and the movie ends. There are just so many guesses left about their relationship.
This is a movie that you should have it on your self and watch it again and again. Trust me.
By the way, I found it was funny that Bob was making the commercial for Suntory, ‘ For leisure time, make it Suntory time.’
Started on 7/20/07, finished on 8/1/07
den 29 juli You will balways be my son 7/29/2007You will always be my son! July 23rd is my boy’s 13th birthday. He has been longing for the day because being a teenage has always been his dream. He’s been asking lots of questions like, ‘Mom, when you were 13, what was it like?’ ‘Were you a big girl and did you help with your parents a lot?’ ... ...
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You will always be my son!
July 23rd is my boy’s 13th birthday. He has been longing for the day because being a teenage has always been his dream. He’s been asking lots of questions like, ‘Mom, when you were 13, what was it like?’ ‘Were you a big girl and did you help with your parents a lot?’
Many times I told my boy, ‘No matter how old you are, you are always Mom’s kid’. So he usually takes advantage of my words. For instance, when he is lazy organizing his room, he will ask my help, ‘Mom, you said I am always your kid. And all Moms take care of their kids. Why don’t you do that for me?’
Time flies! Now he is thirteen. It seems to me that it was just a few days ago while he was a baby boy. Those wonderful moments that I held his little hands and I kissed his tiny feet are so fresh in my mind. He just grows so fast while I am indulging in the happy times we are together. He is no longer an obedient little boy. Instead he always has his own reasons. Sometimes he is so smart at responding me that I really do not know how to answer back to his comments. Just a few weeks ago, I shared my experience of ‘bad luck and good luck’ with him. I told him in the end, ‘if you are having a bad luck in doing something, do not give up so easily, focus on your goal and stick to it. If you are having a good luck, do not stop there without going forward.’ Then a few days ago, I asked him to take a break from playing the computer game. He said, ‘Mom, I am having a bad luck now, give me just 10 more minutes, I should be able to win. Mom, you told me that one should not give up when he is in bad luck. He should focus on his goal’. I laughed and agreed with him. So he continued his game. 15 minutes later, I said, ‘son, isn’t it time to stop now?’. He’s like ‘Mom, I am having a good luck now, I wish I could stop. But I really should not stop here, right? Mom, I should go forward to my goal… …’ Well, I really did not know what to say next.
One morning, while I was driving to work, I heard the song from the radio – ‘You will always be my son’: He runs fast… he drives my old car… … no matter what life will be, you will always be my son… It touches my heart. Yes, my dearest son, no matter what life will be and how big you grow, you are always my son. I will always love you the way you are.
Started on 7/26, finished on 7/29/07 den 7 juli Taste of Chicago 2007
2007 芝加哥食品节 号称世界规模第一大的芝加哥食品节每年会吸引三百万以上的来自全国以及世界各地的游客。食品节一般是在每年的六月最后一个星期开始，一直持续到‘独立日’。 在观赏大湖美丽的风景之后，步行到GRANT PARK，品尝美味的食品，真的是盛夏时节很好的一种享受。 今年因为有朋友从匹兹堡过来，我们就一起去了湖边。漫步在‘海军码头’，满眼碧蓝的湖水，阵阵的微风吹过来，仿佛自己也变成了一艏在大湖里航行的帆船。心情如同在澄澈的湖水里洗过，清爽极了。一路上，我们惬意地聊着天，海阔天空畅谈彼此的生活，应了孔老夫子的老话， ‘有朋自远方来，不亦乐乎？ ’。 不知不觉中，我们来到了GRANT PARK. 原本打算一路直奔食品街。可是，路边的杂耍吸引了我们的注意力，于是大家干脆坐在石阶上看起了街头杂技表演。其实，要真是比本事的话，这种杂耍怎么能跟中国人的技艺相比，无非是雕虫小技而已。就是小时候看到的街头杂耍也比这的表演，技艺要高超多少倍呢？倒是那个真人扮的‘铜塑’让人多少觉得新奇，一种神情，一种姿态，一动不动站在那里，不时会突然改变姿势， 也不知道这种街头表演是谁想出来的。真真假假，假假真真，有些创意。 终于，来到了食品节的场地，满街的食客，让我觉得一下子回到了上海的南京路，熙熙攘攘的人群，更让我想起曾经在上海周末逛街的光景。在美国看到这么多的人聚集在一起真的不是很常见的事，就是在纽约最繁华的地段，也不会看到有这么多的人。满街的食品飘香，满街的人声鼎沸，好一番热闹的场面。怎么会有这么多的 ‘hungry men and women’? http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Taste_of_Chicago
den 11 juni Canned foods-罐头 6/11/07由罐头想起的… For English Version--- www.yongmei2007.spaces.live.com 星期天出去买东西,进了一家DOLLAR TREE-每样东西都是一块钱的那种店. 无意中看到了各种罐装的水果罐头,鱼罐头, 让我想起了小时候的一些事情… 那个时候,整个国家的生活水平都很差.物资严重缺乏.买东西要凭票限量供应. 买粮食要用粮本,买肉,鱼,蛋什么的要用肉票,蛋票. 连买布都要布票. 那年头,即使有钱也买不到需要的东西. 当时, 我们家是人人都羡慕的 ‘双职工’ 家庭.就是说爸爸妈妈都上班,都有政府的固定工资. 记得爸爸为了买鸡蛋和农产品, 要事先跟他班上的一个农村学生约好,等一切备齐了,爸爸就会在某个晚上,骑上自行车,花一两个小时的时间去乡下那个学生家里去取什么鸡蛋,煎饼什么的. 他只能等天黑人少的时候才回来,免得被人家看见而惹麻烦. 要是被人家抓住可不是闹着玩的. 记得一次和妹妹在家附近玩,忽然看到一个提着篮子卖鸡蛋的的老太太拼命往前跑, 后面跟着两个 ‘红卫兵’ . 老太太哪是这两个 红卫兵的对手, 三下五除二, 老太太被逮着了. 任凭老太太怎样哀求,红卫兵还是拿走了老太太的一篮子鸡蛋. 我跟妹妹看着老太太流着眼泪坐在地上,心里很可怜她. 望着老太太, 想着红卫兵 ‘割资本主义尾巴’的话, 怎么也不明白, 鸡蛋和尾巴有什么关系? 记忆当中,小的时候很少能够吃到肉. 好不容易过年过节的时候, 能够买到肉, 妈妈总是挑最肥的买, (据说还要认识人才能买到肥的.) 原因是可以多炼些猪油炒菜,这样一来,就是粮店供应的油不够吃,那些猪油也可以顶一阵子. 可想而知, 剩下来的终于可以吃到嘴里的有多少. 所以每次菜里面终于可以见到肉星的时候, 我们小孩子们总是抢着吃. 有一次, 我和妹妹意识到妈妈没有吃肉,就给妈妈夹一块瘦肉. 可是妈妈说, ‘你们吃吧,我不喜欢吃瘦肉.瘦肉塞牙。’ 于是就找块肥肉给妈妈吃. 可是妈妈还是说, ‘我也不喜欢肥肉’ . 所以就一直认为, 妈妈不喜欢吃肉. 其实慢慢长大了,生活条件也好了, 才知道妈妈是一个非常爱吃肉的人. 因为吃的跟不上, 我小的时候得过营养不良性的贫血. 医生对爸爸妈妈说, ‘给这孩子做点好吃的!’ 爸爸妈妈担心,可是我心里却偷偷地乐,回家的路上,又蹦又跳的. 因为可以有好吃的东西了. 现在说来好象很可笑,居然有小孩子喜欢自己生病. 而那个时候, 我真的盼生病, 而且也天随人愿, 我常常生病. 所以我比弟弟妹妹多吃了好多好吃的东西. 记得那时候, 生病的时候, 妈妈会买来水果罐头给我吃, 有时侯是梨的,有时侯是苹果的, 还有桃的,偶尔会有荔枝的….吃完了果肉, 连最后一滴糖汁也喝掉… 好象每次吃好了水果罐头, 病就好了一半似的… … 今天看到那些摆在货架上的各式各样的水果罐头,鱼罐头, 已经记不清从什么时候起不再吃那些罐头了. 然而它却让我想起了这些童年的故事. 想想现在中国人的生活,我从心底里说, 愿我的中国更富强, 相信明天一定会更好!
On Sunday, I went out for shopping. I stepped into a ‘Dollar Tree’- a typical petty store in which everything sells for one dollar. To my surprise, I found those canned fruits and fishes. I looked at those canned foods of different varieties. My memories went back to my childhood. At that time when I was young, the living conditions in China were very bad overall. We lacked all kinds of supplies. We could only buy the limited stuff relying on all kinds of tickets by the government. If we wanted to buy the foodstuffs, we had to use our food tickets to get the fixed amount of the foods. Even to buy the cloth, my mom had to use the tickets too. At those times, you were not able to buy anything even if you had lots of money. Both my parents worked and got regular pay from the government. It was considered an ideal family life since both my Dad and Mom had the jobs. I remember, in order to buy some eggs and other produce, Dad had to make an appointment with the local farmers via the help of a student in his class. When everything was ready, my Dad would ride his bicycle for a couple of hours to the farmers to buy the foods and take them home. He had to wait until it was dark so that nobody could see him. Apparently, it was not fun if you were caught. Once, my sister and I were playing nearby home. Suddenly we saw an old lady carrying a basket of eggs stampeded towards the front. Behind her, there were 2 ‘Red Guards’ chasing. It appeared that the old lady had been selling the eggs and was seen by the Red Guards. Of course, how could this old lady run away from the 2 young boys? She was caught and her whole basket of eggs was taken away. No matter how she pleaded the two boys, they just would not listen to her. My sister and I felt really sorry about the old lady who was sitting on the ground and crying for her eggs. However we really could not do anything for her. Looking at the old lady and thinking the 2 Red Guards’ words like ‘cutting the capitalism’s tail’, I was dumbfounded, ‘ How could the eggs be related to tails?’ In my memories as a small kid, I seldom could have the meat (either pork or beef) to eat. When finally if it was Chinese New Year or other important festivals that we could buy the pork, ALWAYS, my Mom would buy those very fat ones in order to get lard to make sure that she could cook the dishes when we ran out of the cooking oils distributed by the governmental food stores. Actually, you had to know someone in order to get the pork fats. So you can tell how much pork was left later. Whenever my mom cooked the dishes with pork in them, my sister and I (at that time my youngest sister and brother were not born yet) went through the whole dishes to make sure all the pork were eaten. Once, we noticed that Mom had not eaten a single bite of the pork. We picked a lean piece for her. Mom returned it to the plate and told us, ‘ You girls eat it, I never like the lean pork. It is not good for my teeth.’ So we found a fat piece of pork and gave it to Mom. Mom said, ‘ I do not like the fat one. It does not taste good to me.’ For a long time since then, we thought that our Mom did not like pork. Actually, as time goes on and our life gets better, we know that our mother likes pork very much. I got very bad anemia as a kid due to insufficient nutrients. I remember the doctor said to my parents, ‘You should give her some good foods.’ On the way back home, my parents were very concerned of me. However, I was so happy. I jumped and hopped till I got home. I was so excited that my parents would get me ‘good foods’. You might think it is so funny that a kid wanted to be sick. That was true however. I always hoped that I got sick soon. And I could always make it happen. I got sick so frequently. Because of that, I ate more ‘good foods’ than my sister did. When I was sick, my mom bought me the canned fruits. Sometimes, it was pear; sometimes, it was apple or peaches. Occasionally, I could get Lychee. I would finish all the pulp and lick up the last drop of the syrup… It seemed that I almost recovered from my sickness after I ate the canned fruits…… Today I saw those canned fruits and fishes. I could not recollect when I stopped eating the canned fruits. However, it reminded me those stories in my childhood. When I think about the good life people enjoy in China right now. I can not help saying to myself, ‘I wish our China more prosperous. And I am fully convinced that China will get better and better!’
den 7 juni Something About MY Bossy Dad 6/7/07
Something about my Bossy Dad 6/7/07 www.yongmei2007.spaces.live.com During the nights, when I have some work to do on my computer, sometimes I’d like to log on my MSN messenger while I am doing my work. If Dad meets me, he always says to me, ‘It is too late, you should go to sleep. You need to get up early to go to work tomorrow..’. Then I often talk back to him, ‘Okay Dokay, Dad, I am gonna sleep right now. I always go to sleep before 11PM, Good Night!’ Then, I block him on the messenger and continue what I am doing without letting him to see me online. Ha Ha! The old man never knows that I have been tricking on him all the times. Last night, I was caught again by my bossy Dad. Dad: It is too late, almost 12 now. You should go to sleep. Tomorrow you need to get up early to work. You should know how to take care of yourself. You are not a little girl now. Working hard is good, but at the same time, take good care of yourself… YM: Come on, Dad, don’t you think you are too bossy? Well, I like that because I know that someone cares about me. I know only my Dad will always care about me. Dad: You know our Chinese saying, ‘The mother worries a lot when her kids are away from her.’ YM: OKaaaaaaaay, Dad. It says ‘Mother’ not ‘Father’. So there is nothing to do with you. Leave me alone then. Dad: We are not in the old times. Right? Nowadays, father’s worries are the same as the mother’s YM: OK, old Mr. Li. I am gonna sleep now. You happy? (As usual, block him, continue what I am doing.) GUESS WHAT, I CAUGHT MY OLD MAN UP TODAY. HERE IS OUR CONVERSATION YM says: 说别人,自己这么晚不睡 ( You asked me to sleep early. Look at you! you do not go to sleep even it is this late! ) 独钓寒江 says: 我听LL他们开会呢 ( I am listening to your brother’s conference call meeting) 独钓寒江 says: 看看LL表现 ( I want to see how he performs in that meeting) 独钓寒江 says: 不能有声音 ( I am not supposed to make any noises) YM says: 垂帘听政,LL啥时候出徒? (Oh my goodness! You are hanging a curtain behind my poor brother and attend his ‘ state affairs’ ? What day can he finish his apprentice? ) - I am using a Chinese idiom ‘ Chui Lian Ting Zheng’ which is about a young emperor’s mother- a very famous woman emperor in Qing Dynasty – Ci Xi who hung a curtain behind his son’s discussions with his ministers and gave advices to her son. 独钓寒江 says: 还待时日 ( Needs more time.) 独钓寒江 says: 太不成熟 ( Not matured enough) 独钓寒江 says: 但孺子可教也 ( But he has the potential.. A young man worthy educating *** another Chinese idiom)
I purposely write this in ENGLISH because I know my Dad does not know much English other than ‘ Hello’ “ Good morning’ BY THE WAY, my Dad’s name on MSN “ fishing alone on a cold river” – Isn’t that a cool name for an old guy!
den 4 maj 听那英的 '雾里看花'5/3/2007 何需一双慧眼? ------听那英 ‘雾里看花’
雾里看花,水中望月 你能分辨这变换莫测的世界? 涛走云飞,花开花谢 你能把握这摇曳多姿的季节?
借我,借我一双慧眼吧 ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ 何需一双慧眼?
有时看到晴朗的天空 有时望见低沉的云彩 花开花谢,望尽无数的冬去春来!
也曾体验相聚时的喜悦 也曾经历分离时的眼泪 涛走云飞,聚散在摇曳多姿的季节!
水中望月,雾里看花 一个精彩的世界! 何需一双慧眼? 已是真真切切!
*水中望月, 雾里看花, 本来就是这个世界的精彩所在。水中月,雾中花, 真真切切的景色 ! 为何要一双’慧眼’? 分扰不是因为没有慧眼，分辨 变化莫测的世界，把握摇曳多姿的季节，需要一种心态。 den 11 april Destroyed Hero 4/9/07Destroyed Hero 4/9/2007 -A few more words for L www.yongmei2007.spaces.live.com These days, I have been digesting our conversation of ‘struggles’. Just want to say a few more to you. As a matter of fact, I think it is natural that we have fighting inside going on all the times. I believe, inside us, there dwell an angel and a devil. They have been fighting all the times. Sometimes, the angel wins, sometimes the devil wins. But if you can make sure that most of the time the angel wins, you are living a successful life. Santiago- the main character in Ernest Hemingway’s The Old Man and the Sea is a typical portrait of human race. He represents the courage, strength and the endurance of the human race. Like all men, he struggled with his faith (fish) and his life- loved and hated (the sea). He wins over his faith (the fish). However, the life (the sea) sends the sharks to destroy what he won. Some interpret Santiago as a defeated hero. I prefer to call him a ‘destroyed hero’. As Ernest Hemingway said himself: ‘A man can be destroyed but not defeated’ We are a combination of ‘flesh (body)’ and ‘spirit (soul)’. So, as long as we live in this world, we are constantly facing the battles between the angel and the devil. I think you will agree with me. My son said to me the other day, ‘Mom, I try hard not to sin. Well, who else does not sin as a human being?’ I got what he meant later, ‘Mom, do not expect too much from me as long as I tried my best.’
den 5 april 此曲只应天上有!-MELODY FROM THE HEAVEN 4/3/07此曲只应天上有! FOR ENGLISH VERSION, PLS GO TO: WWW.YONGMEI2007.SPACES.LIVE.COM 八月桂花遍地开,鲜红的旗帜竖呀竖起来, 张灯又结彩呀嘿… …
最近一阵子, 我在练习用二胡演奏这首曲子.小的时候, 常听妈妈唱这首歌, 所以跟着她, 早就熟悉了这首歌的曲调.虽然如此, 却从来没有对这首歌有什么反应. 更不用说什么感动.只是一直当作一只老歌,只有妈妈那一代的人才会喜欢的歌, 那是她们那一代人的流行歌曲.
因为好久没有摸那把二胡了，大概有两三年的时间吧．所以好多谱子都忘记了，只好重新去找出六年前从国内带来的二胡演奏的书．那本书上的第一首歌就是 ‘八月桂花遍地开’．于是顺手就弹拉了起来．出乎我的意料，欢快的曲调让我一下子沉浸在一种喜气洋洋的感觉中, 思绪随着乐曲的旋律回到了桂花开放的季节… … 仿佛闻到了满街飘着的桂花的香气. 桂林西街十月桂花节的集市上，买来几束缀满点点黄花的桂花枝，放在家中,香气绕樑, 沁人肺腑… … 对了,还有浇满蜜糖的甜甜的桂花莲藕… …
让我想起了唐朝大诗人杜甫<<赠花卿>>的名句, ‘ 此曲只应天上有,人间能得几回闻?’ 4/3/2007
附: 附上杜甫的诗(老爸会喜欢),附上歌词(老妈会喜欢). 爸,妈,一起唱这首歌, 怎么样?
赠花卿
锦城丝管日纷纷，半入江风半入云。
八月桂花遍地开歌词八月桂花遍地开
活捉张辉瓚呀,打垮罗卓英呀 一杆红旗飘在空中 保卫工农新政权 带领群众闹革命 红色战士最光荣 亲爱的农友们哪,
den 2 april What a JOY to have a friend coming from afar 4/2-07What a JOY it is to have friends coming from afar! ---- Confucius 有朋自远方来，不亦乐乎？ www.yongmei2007.spaces.live.com Originally, it comes from ‘Analects of Confucius’ Chapter1.1------ In this chaper, Confucius named 3 happiest tings one should cherish in one’s life: The Master said: "To learn something and then to put it into practice at the right time: is this not a joy? To have friends coming from afar: is this not a delight? Not to be upset when one's merits are ignored: is this not the mark of a gentleman?) In Confucius time, they did not have the advanced technologies. No phone calls, no emails, no networks and even no letters (few could read). It was quite inconvenient for people to travel from township to township. People did not have trains, cars or planes like we do today. It took extremely long time to visit a friend from far away. You had to walk and lay away all the works. Unless you were strongly motivated, you would not walk that far to visit someone. So Confucius would say ‘What a joy it is to have friends coming from afar!’ The first time I heard it was from my Dad when I was young. Once my Dad heard that some of his students were coming to visit him during summer vacation, he was very delighted and said those phrases to me. I was baffled by the phrases though I knew it must be a very delightful thing to Dad. I asked him the meaning of it. Then my Dad explained the meaning of the words. He said in the end, ‘My girl, someday, when you grow up, you will probably experience the JOY to have friends coming from afar… … Thrust me, that is a wonderful experience in one’s life! ’ Yes, Dad was absolutely right! It is really a lovely, impressive and joyful experience in my life. Just a couple of weeks ago, I got a friend who came from Europe to visit me after almost 7 years since we both left Shanghai. From the moment I saw him at the airport till he left, I felt I was the luckiest person in this world to be blessed with such a wonderful moment to enjoy the JOY to have a friend coming from afar.
Though we did not have much time together, I have been overwhelmed with the joyfulness every moment we were together. Seems I am walking in the forest in the early spring, breathing the fresh air, listening the twittering of the birds, suddenly, a small bunch of tiny flowers jump into my eyesight. So fresh and so delightful…… It reminds me the soft breezes at the beach. On the white soft sands, I am standing there, looking far at the edge that the sky and the sea meet. I can not tell which part is the sky and which part is the sea since their blues are mixed together. The breeze touches my face and my hair so softly… … What else do you expect from your life if you are blessed with such a joy?
4/2/2007 Just want to express my gratefulness to my friend’s visit in March. That was definitely an unforgettable moment of joyfulness in my life. den 27 juli 邻家男孩邻家是一家巴基斯坦人,两个儿子一个女儿.丈夫在LUCENT工作,妻子呆在家里. 一家人过着其乐融融的日子. 但今天我要说的不是他们全家, 而是那个让我一直想写点什么的 ‘二儿子’.
我们两家几乎是同时搬到这个社区的. 刚刚见到这个男孩的时候, 是在屋外的草坪上, 男孩站在那里,年纪十四, 五岁的样子. 他满脸微笑地望着我. 我很友善地跟他说了声HI. 他没有出声.脸上的笑容却更加灿烂. 那甜甜的微笑让我觉得这个孩子的里里外外浑身上下都是用微笑做成的. 大大的眼睛里仿佛流淌着一股清泉,清澈而纯净… … 尽管他没有讲话,可是我却觉得他的眼睛在说: HI, 我亲爱的朋友,很高兴认识你!
就这样, 以后多少次的邂逅,男孩都是回报我以他那独特的默默无声的微笑. 那笑容可掬的面孔常常让我有一种凭海临风的惬意!
终于有一天,我跟男孩的妈妈谈起了男孩可爱的微笑. 然而出乎意料的是,他妈妈告诉我这个孩子由于先天的不足,不能象其他移民的孩子一样学会讲英文,所以他每次见到别人都会报以甜甜的微笑… …
然而我并不觉得那个男孩有什么缺欠,因着他与众不同的笑容, 他是那么完美, 那么可爱. 那一刻, 我一下子明白,原来上天赐每一个人以特殊的品质, 让每一个人的存在如山花般烂漫, 如夏星般璀灿!
den 15 april NEVER ALONENO MATTER HOW ALONE WE FEEL,
SOMEHOW,
SOMEWHERE,
SOMEONE KNOWS AND CARES
WE ARE NEVER REALLY ALONE. den 3 februari 且行且珍惜
词 陈道明·厉曼婷 曲 伍思凯
没有谁能忘记 这真挚情谊 就算相见无期 在某个夜里 情缘系千里 且行且珍惜 ... ...
且行且珍惜 且行且珍惜 且行且珍惜 den 30 december 风中飞花也明白
风中飞花也明白
---- 听王袁 ‘其实我很在乎你’
风起的时候 你决意要走 握紧手中的单程票 你说不愿再停留
其实我很想说 不要离开 却祝福你 从此幸福愉快 那一刻 我望着风中的飞花 忍不住眼泪都流出来
多少年后 再没了你的消息 而那段日子却依然美丽
再后来 我成了爱哭的女孩 风起的时候 飞花也明白 我的眼泪为什么流出来
12-28-2005 den 21 december 我的诗 -----无题-----给随遇而安的人
人生只是那么短短的一瞬 如流星划过夜空 转眼便无影踪
或许你会遇到疾病 那是人生最大的不幸 但是不论怎样 都不要放弃 哪怕只有三天的光明
或许你会陷入贫穷 身居陋室过着拮据的生活 但你的思想不可贫乏 它要散热发光 如同冬日里熊熊燃烧的烈火
或许你会遭遇失败 须知人生处处布满荆棘 你要做的 就是竭尽全力 面对失败从不自弃
或许你会落入孤独 只身在天地间行走 但你一定要 在思想的孤独中坚定自己的追求 在情感的孤独中虔诚等候
所有的一切 就象江河行地,日月经天 是必经的苦难 若是这样 就让它来吧 一切顺其自然
12-19-2005 den 1 december 下雨了
风呼呼拍打着窗子,把雨一股脑儿地抛过来.似乎要砸烂这个世界.风声雨声的混响让我不时从梦中醒来,我把头深深埋进被子里,全然不顾窗外的风雨混杂…
小的时候,我是个体弱多病的孩子,打针吃药是家常便饭.也许是因为久病的缘故,我成了一个多愁善感的小孩.淡淡的哀愁和孤独与我形影不离. 记得那年, 躺在医院病榻上昏睡的我睁开双眼,看到妈妈坐在床边握着我的手. 听到雨滴敲打着窗子的声音. ‘ 妈,下雨了’ 我喃喃地说. 妈笑笑‘ 有妈妈在呢,睡吧!’ 那一刻,我觉得雨滴是那么温暖, 我不用怕痛,我不是一个孤独的小孩,我是一个倍受呵护的幸福小孩… …
后来,我去了那座大城市,一个常常下雨的城市. 在那些孤单无奈的日子里,当我一个人举着一把伞,在瓢泼大雨中等待迟迟未到的班车,我窃窃庆幸还有可以躲避风雨的一把大伞… …我依然记得那些雨天的周末,一边听着雨滴敲打玻璃窗的滴滴答答声响,一边悠然品位尼采的 '酒神,日神'… … 枣红色丝绒窗帘下的小屋里, 聆听雨声, 数算一滴滴的雨滴从屋沿滴落到窗台上… … 那些听雨的日子给我留下了一个个温馨又快乐的回忆, 即便是远离了故土, 每当天下起雨的时候,那些美好的回忆就又清晰地出现在我的记忆里… …
又下雨了… …
den 21 november 丑小鸭今天照例带儿子去上游泳课.儿子慢腾腾地踢着腿,慢腾腾地划着水... ... 当其他孩子们一个个游到终点的时候,儿子依然沉着冷静,慢条斯理地游着,时而还探探头,看看妈妈是否在盯着他… … 总算最后一个到达!金发小教练异常的耐心,或许是因为我跟那小教练讲了儿子的一些情况,那金发小姑娘跟在儿子后面,嘟嘟囔囔说些什么,两人还做了一个HI FIVE的手势,好象在祝贺儿子终于到达终点... ...
儿子学游泳已经是两年前的事了.暑假里,我把他送到附近一所高中举办的暑假游泳班. 记得初学游泳的那几天,儿子表现出极其顽强的反抗精神,死活不肯把头放进水里… … 几天过去了, 别的孩子已经在教练的帮助下尝试其他动作了, 而他却仍旧高傲地昂着他的头… …
‘ 怎么能让这小子低下那高傲的头呢?’ 我问自己. 忽然心生一计,将家中的大冲水浴缸充了满满的一缸水. 儿子坐在大浴缸里,全然没有了对水的恐惧,在妈妈的指导下,一遍一便尝试着把头放在水里… … ‘妈妈,我会了,我能把头放在水里了!’ 随着儿子的一声呐喊,我也高兴地跳了起来…..
跟儿子一起学游泳的孩子们一个一个地超过了儿子, 进入更高一级的游泳课. 我的儿子每一个游泳班却要参加两次,三次才能过关. 有时我真的为他着急.
‘ 儿子,你什么时候才能学会游泳啊?’ 看着儿子象狗熊一般扑通扑通笨拙地游着,我不禁脱口而出. 其实我明白儿子的障碍所在,那是他所无法抗拒的. 我知道我的儿子是一只丑小鸭,一个需要妈妈更多投入和帮助的丑小鸭. 有妈妈的帮助,儿子一天天在战胜自己的阻碍. 有一天,儿子就会变成美丽的白天鹅!
den 7 november LoveLove is patient,
Love is kind,
It does not envy,
It does not boast,
It is not proud,
It is not rude,
It is not self-seeking,
It is not easily angered,
It keeps on record of wrongs,
Love does not delight in evil
but rejoices with the truth.
It always protects,
always trusts,
always hopes,
always perserveres.
Love never fails.
爱是恒久忍耐,又有恩慈;爱是不嫉妒,爱是不自夸,不张狂,不做害羞的事,不求自己的益处,不轻易发怒,不计算人的恶,不喜欢不义,只喜欢真理;凡事包容,凡事相信,凡事盼望,凡事忍耐.爱是永不止息.
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